Let me start with saying this: I am very open about my MS. I understand and respect those who keep their struggle with Multiple Sclerosis to themselves, however, I find that its therapeutic for me to share my story. I am writing about it with the hopes that I can shed some light on this disease for those newly diagnosed plus it’s a way for me to work through some of the trials and challenges I am faced with as well as recognizing and acknowledging the hidden treasures of living with MS. So, if it’s boring to you, I apologize now but maybe read on, hopefully you will get a little something out of it, even
if it’s just a recipe you may fall in love with! But there is no recipe today – stay tuned though because I am making some Blackened Fish Tacos tomorrow and if they turn out how I intend for them to turn out, I will focus my next post on singing their praises!
I love to travel but as I am progressing in my MS, traveling doesn’t always love me. We recently went to Disney World – an adult’s only Disney World trip! Our friends were coming off a cruise, (we don’t get to hang out with them very often since they moved out of the province), so we decided to meet them in Orlando and do the whole Disney World thing. And the Disney World thing we did……… I was 44 years old before I ever made it to Disneyland and had never been to Disney World. When I was young, I remember all the kids coming to school with those silly Mickey Mouse hats with their name embroidered on them and every time that happened, I would beg my parents to take us to Disneyland and they always said no. I wanted one of those dorky hats so bad, but all I ever got was a huge lollipop one of my friends brought back for me, which my mom made me throw away because it was too much sugar. WTF, didn’t she know that I was never going to see the actual wonder of
I am no world traveler, but I do love to pack my bag and head out on an adventure now and then. I love everything about it, from planning, packing, exploring, sightseeing,
Fast forward to Disney World – although this was an adult trip, I still found myself constantly on the lookout for princesses, chasing Mickey Mouse, hunting down Donald Duck, etc. I have to give props to our travel partners because if I saw a sign that said 10-minute wait to meet so and so, you can bet that I am going to wait the 10 minutes so I can get a picture for the grandkids, and our friends were good sports. Well, they waited with us for some of the characters (even getting in the pictures with us) and sometimes they could be found at a diner with a cold beer in
Back to the actual issues when travelling with this stupid illness that follows me everywhere I go, even when it hasn’t got a ticket! One day, I walked and walked and walked, I did not stop walking all darn day. You know, in my mind, I am still the gal who
The good news is that living with a chronic illness doesn’t mean you have to abandon your travel dreams, so I have made a little list of some tips that may make your travels a little more enjoyable:
- If there’s something you absolutely don’t want to miss out on, do it first if possible. Don’t save it for the end of the trip when you might be exhausted or sick. Even if you feel invincible at the start of the trip, you’re not, so don’t pretend you are. If you be sure to get the have to’s out of the way and then move to the want to’s, you’ll be much less disappointed this way, especially if you end up spending the last couple days of your trip cooped up with exhaustion or a cold / flu.
- If you use Essential Oils (which everyone should be), always travel with your tried and true oils or roll-ons & blends. My favorite multipurpose oils are lavender, peppermint and lemon. I add lemon vitality oil to my water for an extra boost of
energy. It is also good for constipation, fevers, overeating & stress relief. It has been used throughout history to fight food poisoning and helps to lower blood pressure and to ease muscular aches and pains. Use caution when using lemon oil externally though as it is photosensitive and can cause skin irritation if used on skin exposed to direct sunlight (waiting 12 hours before going into the sun is preferable). If you have a headache or nausea, you can mix 1 drop of lavender and peppermint and rub it on your temples, forehead and behind your ears. You can also use lavender and peppermint as a stomach ache remedy by mixing 1 drop of each and rubbing it on your stomach. I never leave home without my MS blend which I rub along my spine for extra nerve support and my Deep Relief roll on for aching muscles or joints. - Pack a positive attitude, humility and kindness – chronic illnesses suck, but there is always room for laughter, humility and kindness. The more you can laugh at yourself, the better off you will be. The more you can see the silver linings, the more fun you will have. A positive attitude can help you solve most minor problems quickly and with a favorable outcome. Tim McGraw says it best when he reminds
us to be humble and kind. When you open your heart, and accept what is with humility, possibilities become available that you may not have been privy to otherwise. If you need to take a slower pace when hiking one day, you may sit on a rock and see that momma deer with her twin babies sunning themselves in the field that you would have missed had you been hiking at max speed. You may miss that beautiful sunset because you hurried yourself along instead of stopping to appreciate the splendor that we are graced with every day. - Don’t wait. Don’t save that dream trip until you retire, or until you have your mortgage paid off, or until the kids are grown or until you lose 20 pounds or until you feel better. MS is unpredictable, go now. No regrets, right?
- Listen to your body. Symptoms of MS can include fatigue, dizziness, and heat intolerance among many other things. These specific side effects can be very
prevalent especially when traveling through hot and humid climates. Don’t feel guilty about taking an afternoon or a day to rest! Yes, you’re in an amazing place, but some of the best times can be spent just relaxing and taking it all in at your own pace. There’s no shame in taking some time to recharge. Then, when you’re all recharged, go out there and soak it all in! - Book your travel with airport assistance and use it! The energy you save by not running through an airport, could mean a couple of more hours (or maybe days) of vacation enjoyment! Bring along your mobility aids – whether it’s a cane or walking sticks, find something that is easy to travel with and use it if you need to.
- Bring along some extra days of your prescription medications. You never know when plans may have to change. Be prepared. Also, bring a list of your medications and your dosage amounts and make sure your travel partner or someone knows where they are written down.
- If you are still working, book a couple of extra days off to recover when you get home.
When we got home, I was sicker than a dog and feeling all together crappy. I didn’t want to go anywhere, see anyone or do anything. My daughter had a chat with me reminding me that yes I was sick, yes I was tired, but that’s life. Everyone gets sick, everyone gets tired and everyone has challenges in their day and in their lives, but when we allow all that negativity inside our head, we have lost the battle and it’s hard to get back into the
What are your best tips to keep from slipping into the negative mindset when things seem stacked against you? I can use all the help I can get!
Keep your eyes peeled for the Blackened Fish Taco recipe!
Until next time!