Choosing Joy Without Ignoring Reality

Life isn’t always easy, and choosing joy doesn’t mean pretending it is. Living with Multiple Sclerosis has taught me that gratitude and grief can exist side by side. In this post, I’m sharing what it means to embrace life’s beautiful moments without ignoring the hard ones—and why a warm bowl of Creamy Chicken and Rice Soup feels like the perfect reminder that comfort often comes in the simplest forms.

Confessions of the World’s Most Awkward Gardener

If there were awards for awkward gardening, I’d bring home the gold medal. Between mystery bulbs, flowers I’ve nearly mistaken for weeds, and a salad dressing recipe I waited 42 years to get my hands on, this post is a reminder that sometimes the best things in life bloom when we least expect them.

Seeing My Dad With New Eyes (And What Time Taught Me About Healing)

As another anniversary of my dad’s passing approaches, I find myself reflecting on how time, perspective, and even chronic illness have reshaped how I see our relationship. Healing doesn’t always happen quickly — but sometimes it arrives when we’re finally ready to receive it.

20 Years Living with MS: Lessons, Lemonade, and Learning to Slow Down

After 20 years with Multiple Sclerosis, I’m reflecting on the lessons, resilience, humour, and unexpected joy that chronic illness has brought — plus a little reminder that sometimes turning lemons into lemonade includes actual lemon loaf.

Hydrangeas, Hope & The Joy of a New-to-Us Garden

Moving into a new-to-us home turns every garden season into a bit of a treasure hunt. This spring, a quietly resilient hydrangea reminded me that blooming doesn’t have to be loud or perfect — sometimes it simply means showing up again. A gentle reflection on gardening, living with MS, and finding comfort in slow, steady growth… plus a simple lemon herb chicken recipe inspired by the season.

Things I’m Learning in This Season

In this season of life, I’m learning that slower doesn’t mean stuck — it means present. After years of raising kids, working full-time, traveling, and moving at full speed, I’m finding joy in being rooted, nesting into our new home, and savouring the small, everyday moments. This post is a reflection on choosing stillness, honouring change, and ending the day with a meal that feels just right.